11. Feb, 2018

Well after a much vistiting in hospital wards over the last few months we can safely say that Amelia has totally shaken off her virus and it's probably the best she has been for a long time. Great energy and a great colour in her face, the only minor setback was the Vincristine (chemo) which causes her to ache so badly, this caused Amelia to miss a few school days, but on the whole doing good.

Thursday 1st February was our 3 monthly to The Royal Marsden to see our consultant and again she was very pleased with Amelia's progress, the virual infection did set us back on terms of a treatment plan, but nothing that can't be caught up - great news. A full body examine and the routine investigation into Amelia's weekly blood results and all was good. I can never explain the feeling driving away from the RM with this kind of news, a warm inside feeling that is truly satisfying.

Can you believe we only have 3 more scheduled visits to the Royal Marsden - Wow.

So when Amelia is well she is bouncing, back to her normal self, so much so, that yes, it's Showtime again, being put on by the wonderful Thanet Stage School of Peforming Arts at the Winter Gardens Margate, starting Thursday 15th February, it will be a truly amazing show put on by Miss Joesphine, Miss Amy, Miss Syroon and Miss Jackie along with Sally, Tracy, Cathy, Natalie, Tracyann and all the chaperones (sorry don't know you all)!

Amelia has been working hard, as she did miss some of the classes when practice was going on, but trust me, she has been fully committed in front of the mirror. From 42nd Street to School of Rock. I'm going to watch it on Friday night and will no doubt have "something in my eye"!

Tracyann and I are doing The Marsden March on 4th March, if you would like to spnsor us that would be great, please see the charity events on the web page, all donations go straight to The Royal Marsden and you don't need me to tell you how amazing this chairty is. 

Well, thanks for listening and reading the ramblings of a 40 year old! Ha ha ha.

Dan X


P.S 248 days till end of treatment.

7. Jan, 2018

Amelia continues to struggle to shake of the virus that hit her before Christmas, it took me out for 2 weeks.

So Amelia is back in hospital, Rainbow Ward QEQM.

I'll be honest, we have been complacent, we desperatley wanted Amelia to have a nice Christmas, which she did, but she wasn't firing on all cylinders. Going to Butlins in between Christmas and New Year should not have happened, but we went and I now regret that decision.

When I look back at this time last year (the blog helps) we were so more strict with control of our health in regards to people visiting/washing hands etc.. 

Well, we are now back in that mode and all the calender has been cleared so we can concentrate on us 4 again. Selfish yes, the right thing to do - totally.

It's been a tough month and this week it won't get much better.


Dan x

31. Dec, 2017

Well, Happy New Year to you! Goodbye 2017 and Hello 2018.

What a year 2017 has been, in terms of Amelia's health it's be great! She has really done well this year, her general health has been good, energy levels have vastly improved and we have managed to do a lot of things that we didn't do in 2016.

Looking back on the year we started maintenance treatment, this also saw the last lumbar puncture, a total of 15. We saw football teams arranging charity games for Amelia and CLIC Sargent, friends ran the London Marathon, a family wedding, trip to Legoland, The Sun's Who Cares Wins Awards and we even managed a holiday where we visited Everton FC! 

I suppose if there was a "down" moment it was probably December, where we have all struggled with illness. This resulted in Amelia spending time in hospital and was really close to spending Christmas there, but we got her home and although not 100%, she is far better than she was and we even managed to get away for a few days.

So, what does 2018 look like - well, the maintenance treatment finishes on 18th October (289 days from 1st Jan 2018) and we are planning some celebrations for that! Oliver turns 6, this little guy amazes me every single day, I can't really put into words or articulate how this boy has coped for the past 18 months, he is just amazing and such a wonderful boy, he deserves the world. 

In March both Tracyann and I are going to be doing the Marsden March, which raises money and awareness for The Royal Marsden Hospital, will be posting a Just Giving page in the New Year, I know you wonderful lot have done so much but we really wanted to do something for The Royal Marsden, so a small donation would be great 👍

Have a wonderful and prosperous 2018, Happy New Year to all our family and friends.

Love Dan, Tracyann, Amelia and Oliver

14. Dec, 2017

Well, it's been a while since our last post and quite alot has gone on!

Back on 2nd November Amelia had her consultant appointment at The Royal Marsden, we saw Dr Elsje and Amelia was fully examined - she was told she was the model patient, great news! The meds have increased in volume due to Amelia growing, basically body mass, this time the vincristine has affected her more than on previous occasions, what with the time of year we should have forcasted that there will be a visit into hospital.

That happend this week, off to Rainbow Ward at the QEQM, bloods taken and although Amelia had a virus there was no bacterial infection which was good news. The virus spread through the household, starting with Daddy - so he is getting the blame! I'm just pleased that the virus wasn't as servere as what I had had.

Amelia is still off school and still struggling, just goes to show what an increased dose of poison does to your body, she wants to go school so hopefully next week where she can join in the Xmas fun.

Fingers crossed we are all back to health ready for the weekend, some surporses are in store 😀

Thank you all for your support, I recived some messages on social media in the week, just out of the blue, some friends asking if I was ok, really nice touch, I don't see these people that often but have know them a long time, great to get a message of support, really means alot.

Well, that's about it really, we all wish you a wonderful Christmas - where has a year gone? Just imagine, this time next year we will be chemo free.

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year, enjoy your family time.

Dan, Tracyann, Amelia and Oliver X

15. Oct, 2017

Well, theres only one subject making the headlines on the blog, that's The Sun's Who Cares Wins Awards 2017 that happend last Wednesday, apologies for all those people wanting a blog update! Just been really busy.

It was such an amazing day, although Amelia struggled due to the fact that she had chemo on the Monday, Vincristine, which really does knock her, but she as ever, battled through and won the attention of the celebrities! All the celebs were great with all the children and posed for photos and made a fuss of everyone if I'm honest, although Daddy nearly put his foot in it by calling Penny Lancaster - Rachel Hunter, that would of caused issues!

The day was quite amazing in the fact that there were so many stories portrayed that at times the whole room was still and you thought that you were the only one in the room, for example Stepping Hill hospital first responders to the Manchester bombing were there and won a special recognition award.

Another example were the parents of Jemima Layzell, who was the 13 year old girl who donated 8 of her organs after suddenly passing away with a brain aneurysm.

Remarkable people, I actually questioned why the hell were we there, to be perfectly honest. 

Again, it just brings home how lucky we are that we are in the position we are in, count every day as a blessing and live for today!

Half term is looming, I'm off work and we are planning a good one! Amelia and Oliver are both well, next consultant appointment is in November, the end of this month will be under a year left of treatment 😀


Love all of us x